Wednesday, November 25, 2009

How To Perform a Striptease


Drive the man in your life wild with a striptease he’ll never forget.

You Will Need

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Step 1: Choose an outfit from sexy lingerie to sexy dress up costumes

Choose an outfit. It can be anything from a conservative business suit to a sexy French maid costume — the important thing is that each article can be removed with a minimum of fuss.

Make sure that no item is tight enough to create bulges or leave marks on your skin.

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Step 2: Snag stilettos

Pick shoes that will make the most of your legs, meaning something with a high, skinny heel — the higher and skinnier the better.

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Step 3: Put on stockings

Put on some silky stockings with garters. Go with classic fishnets, or get a pair with a racy seam up the back.

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Step 4: Set the music

Get your music ready so you don’t run out of tunes in the middle of your performance. Make a sultry mix or playlist, so you know what’s coming up.

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Step 5: Set the mood

Use a light dimmer and/or candles to create flattering lighting, and put a straight-backed chair in the middle of the room.

If necessary, take a swig of something before you begin to calm your nerves and lower your inhibitions, but don’t get drunk — no one likes a sloppy striptease.

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Step 6: Walk the walk

Begin your striptease by striding into the room like a professional catwalker, one foot directly in front of the other, shoulders back, head raised high.

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Step 7: Begin to strip

Turn your back on your man and slide your jacket or top off your shoulders. Turn back around and toss it aside.

Maintain eye contact throughout your act.

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Step 8: Tease

Put your hands behind your head and gyrate a bit before moving on to the skirt. Turn your back to him, grab the sides of your skirt, lean slightly forward, and slowly tug your skirt down as you wiggle your hips. When the skirt reaches the floor, kick it aside.

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Step 9: Lose the garters

Move around some more, running your hands along your body, before kicking off a shoe and throwing that leg on top of the chair. Undo the garter and slowly begin to unfold the stocking until it’s off. Repeat with the other stocking, then step back into stilettos.

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Step 10: Take off the bra

Push your bra straps off your shoulder, unhook your bra, slip it off, and fling it at him. Then languidly caress your breasts.

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Step 11: Slip off panties

Time for the finale! Turn your back on him, slip your hands, palms down, into the sides of your panties, bend forward, and slowly push them down, keeping your legs as straight as you can. When they reach your ankles, step out of them.

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Step 12: Prepare

Prepare to be ravaged by your very turned-on lover!

Prostitution is legal in Iceland, but strip shows are against their laws.

Source for further reading:

Howcast How To Perform a Striptease Nov. 24, 2009

Taylor, Llyn Madame Rouge Australia Nov. 24, 2009

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Nicole Kidman’s strange sex

Nicole Kidman has loved experimenting with “strange sexual fetish stuff.

The “Nine” actress – who divorced Tom Cruise in 2001 following a 10-year union and is now married to country singer Keith Urban – says she has enjoyed exploring with the different aspects of love, sex and relationships over the years.

She explained: “My life has been about exploring types of love. I’ve explored obsession, I’ve explored strange sexual fetish stuff, I’ve explored the mundane aspect of marriage and monogamy. But I’m still on that journey.”

Despite the fascination people have with her love life, the 42-year-old beauty has vowed to take the details of her past relationship with Cruise to her grave.

She told Britain’s GQ magazine: “I have never discussed the intricacies of it and I never will. I burned most of my journals after I remarried. You’re only going to find out bad things. You can’t read somebody’s diary. You shouldn’t read it.

“I know I live inside some rose-colored cloud but I’ll never waver on it. I am not writing a book. I will go to the grave with all my secrets, all my stories.”

While together, Cruise and Kidman adopted children Isabella, now 17, and Connor, now 14.

Kidman also has 15-month-old daughter Sunday Rose with Urban and Cruise is father to Suri, 3, his daughter with wife Katie Holmes.

Source: Bang Showbiz

Thursday, November 12, 2009

Lelo Vibrators: Sex Toys to Please Women

Vibrators are sex toys that can offer women endless amounts of pleasure. If you are looking for vibrators with inspiring and creative designs, the vast collection of sex available from Lelo vibrators can offer you an amazing choice. Lelo is a Swedish company that manufactures vibrators and other sex toys that can be used for masturbation with or during sex with a partner. Vibrators enhance sexual arousal and can help women to orgasm easier and more frequently. Lelo’s vibrators with their creative design and sexy outlook are also great gift ideas.

An introduction to Lelo rechargeable vibrators

If you are fed up with replacing the batteries of your vibrator, try using a rechargeable vibrator from Lelo’s super range. Rechargeable vibrators may be slightly higher priced than battery oriented vibrators but can definitely deliver when it comes to performance. Rechargeable vibrators from Lelo are available in different types. Some popular choices include the Lelo iris vibrator, the Lelo Gigi vibrator, the Lelo Liv vibrator, the Lelo Elise vibrator, the Lelo Nea vibrator and Lelo Mia vibrator.

Lelo iris vibrator

This attractive, shapely sex toy a classic and sexy rechargeable vibrator from Lelo. You can use it to stimulate your G-spot and help stimulate your partner’s intimate body part during sex. It comes in petal pink colour and is available to purchase from any licensed adult store or online store.

Lelo Gigi vibrator

This is a small, delicate and user-friendly rechargeable vibrator from Lelo. It can be helpful for stimulating the G-spot and is also popular among couples who use the Lelo Gigi vibrator during sex. This rechargeable vibrator is available to purchase in sumptuous deep rose colour.

Lelo Liv vibrator

This is a stylish and sophisticate rechargeable vibrator that can be ideal to buy as a gift. It can be used by couples during sex and a toy to help when masturbating. The Lelo Liv vibrator is about 7 inches in size and available in cheeky cerise colour.

Lelo Elise vibrator

This rechargeable vibrator is a popular great item among women. The Lelo Elise vibrator can be used to stimulating the clitoris and G-spot, which are the woman’s most erogenous zones. It can be used by couples during sexual intercourse.

Lelo Nea vibrator

This rechargeable vibrator has a porcelain-like exterior and is decorated with flowers. This vibrator can be used for clitoral stimulation. Couples can also use Lelo Nea vibrator during sex to enhance pleasure. This vibrator is especially good for beginners who want to explore the sexual potential of their erogenous zones.

Lelo Mia vibrator
It’s a rechargeable vibrator that is used for clitoral stimulation. It’s extremely good for couples and beginners, who want to explore their erogenous zones. Lelo Mia vibrator is available in fresh petal pink colour.

Lelo vibrators – an aid for green sex

Lelo vibrators are eco friendly and boost green sex. Although we are bothered about healthy and green world around us, this consciousness is lost when we are beneath the sheets with a partner. With Lelo vibrators, you can make your sex life green.


Product Demonstration of Lelo Vibrators:




Lelo Vibes – choice of classy women

Men like classy women who are intriguing, mysterious and alluring. And among many other things, Lelo Vibes is the choice of the majority of classy women. These vibes can add to the elegance, sophistication and femininity of any classy woman.

Usage and care of Lelo vibes

The inspiring and sophisticated designs of Lelo vibes can impress any woman in the world. These rechargeable vibes are worth their price. Therefore, you should take their extra care by using them properly and cleaning regularly. Each Lelo Vibes vibrator comes with guidelines and instructions for easy use. You can easily clean your favorite Lelo vibrator with a soapy warm washcloth. However, you should ensure that water doesn’t get in the plug area or buttons of your favorite Lelo vibrator.

Lelo vibes – special gift for every woman

Lelo vibes are extremely good for beginners. These vibes can be ideal gift items for any woman who is looking for something pretty, something that she can feel good using. Lelo vibes can give you a feeling that you’re treating yourself to something special.

Lelo vibrators are luxury vibrators to offer increased levels of pleasure to women.

Source For Further Reading:
By Kevin Fedorr 9/25/2009

Taylor, Llyn Madame Rouge Australia Nov. 13, 2009

Breast Education: 1950's Sex Ed Parody

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

The Seven Fun Sex Positions! A must Read Article

Sex should be sweaty, steamy and sticky. It should have elements of passion and intensity. It should be a moment of untamed frenzy coupled with unbridled excitement and intimacy…

Sound like a familiar fantasy? While sex is great when it turns into the kind of unbridled passion usually reserved for movies and daytime soap operas, it’s not always realistic, nor is it always possible, to achieve. There is, however, one element that’s a little more feasible to bring into your lovemaking — fun.

I’m not just talking about a role-playing, ear-nibbling, dirty-talking, laugh-out-loud role in the hay — I’m talking about the kind of sex that gives you a feeling of intimacy with just the right touch of playfulness. Exactly how is this achieved, you ask? The answer is all in the positioning, my friend.

Here are a few sex positions that’ll help you incorporate the fun factor into your sex life. For more tips and love guides we have exciting books for you like Lover’s Weekender Guide, The Adventurous Couple’s Guide to Sex Toys and Tickle His Pickle.

Moreover, we also have fun and sexy lingeries, dress up costumes, sex toys like Lelo Gigi and accessories like Strip Tease Delux Kit that comes with iamante nipple pasties, satin garter, feather boa, Burlesque CD and bills of desire which your loved one can use when he likes what he sees.

revamping the regulars

When fatigue sets in or you’re just not feeling that creative, you tend to resort back to the “easy,” reliable positions. This is when routine and eventual boredom can start to take over your relationship — fun in the bedroom might be the only way to salvage this rut. Try giving the regular routine a facelift with these new positions.

1- The hitch

The hitch picture - Credit: ThePlayersGuide.com

Description: You are on all fours facing away from your woman, while she lies on her back with her legs in the air.

Benefits for you: The best part of this position is that you have total control of how fast, how slow and how rough it goes. Also, because she gets easy access to your backside, anal stimulation is an easy move to throw into the mix, if you’d like.

Benefits for her: This position mostly looks out for her best interest. She can maximize stimulation of the vaginal walls by constricting the muscles in her vagina, or by opening and closing her thighs. It also facilitates the rubbing of your penis against her clitoris and, as if that weren’t enough, she gets to lay back and enjoy the view!

2- The reverse frog squat

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Description: Lie on your back with your legs parted, while she leans back with her legs bent close to her body.

Benefits for you: This position lets you lay back and relax. Try it after a stressful day at the office or a strenuous workout that makes you way too lazy for lovemaking.

Benefits for her: Not only is she in complete control in this position, but the angle of penetration can be incredibly arousing for her. Equally arousing may be the feeling of the man’s hands caressing her back and sides — a move made simple by this position.

3- The Boston brute

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Description: Your girl lies on her back with her legs extended in the air. With your back facing her, sit on her thighs, and he carefully bends your penis down toward her vagina.

Benefits for you: Since positioning the erect penis downward isn’t something many men can do, you get the sweet satisfaction of knowing you have an extraordinarily bendable penis. Once you get over that ego-trip, you can enjoy a relaxing lower-back massage during sex.

Benefits for her: The angle of penetration can be stimulating for her, and she also might like the fact that you have the freedom to caress her thighs.

4- The merry mandolin

The merry mandolin picture - Credit: ThePlayersGuide.com

Description: While she lies on her side, bending both knees to her chest, you position yourself behind her, extending one leg behind her back and the other between her legs.

Benefits for you: The thrusts are shallow, but it allows you a great amount of control. So, go fast, go slow, go crazy! You’ll probably also really enjoy the new angle of penetration.

Benefits for her: She’ll love the fact that you can reach over and manually stimulate her clitoris at the same.

up for the challenge

When you’re both in the mood for something really out of the ordinary, you may want to give these positions a try. They may call for some acrobatic, contortionist moves, but they’re sure to raise the element of fun during sex.

5- Othello’s back groove

Othello's back groove picture - Credit:ThePlayersGuide.com

Description: Balance yourself on a chair, with your feet at the corner of the base and your arms holding onto the back. Get her to approach the front of the chair and lean forward with her hands on her knees.

Benefits for you: While your position might be a little uncomfortable, you do have complete control of the movement and you get a great visual of the action, which is also very arousing.

Benefits for her: As with all the other rear-entry positions, the angle of penetration may be stimulating for her. Also, if you’ve got the whole balance thing down and you’re feeling brave enough to hold on with one hand, she might enjoy some anal stimulation, if she’s into that sort of thing.

What you need to pull this off: Strong arms and legs and great balance. This move reminds me a little of the trust game, where you fall back and pray that the person behind you has high enough moral standards not to let you plummet to the ground. Similarly, she really needs to trust your level of strength because if your arms or legs give out, not only can you hurt yourself, but the “ouch” factor is severely elevated for her.

Take flight, defy gravity.

6- Superhero’s delight

Superhero's delight picture - Credit: ThePlayersGuide.com

Description: While she grabs the sides of a high stool, you place your hands under her waist and lift her off the ground. She, then, wraps her legs around your waist for extra support.

Benefits for you: Once again, you get complete control of movement, as well as a great view of her backside.

Benefits for her: She lucks out again with the arousing angle of penetration.

What you need to pull this off: Make sure she’s light enough to hold into the air, or make sure you’re strong enough to support her (whatever her weight may be). We wouldn’t want any accidental droppings — this is supposed to be fun, remember?

7- Zero gravity

Zero gravity picture- Credit: ThePlayersGuide.com

Description: She lies with her shoulders on the chair and her head leaning off the side. You stand upright, supporting her hips with your hands, as her legs are extended onto your shoulders.

Benefits for you: You’re the dominant one in this position, so control the movements as you see fit. Also, because her legs are closed, this might make penetration feel a little more snug than usual.

Benefits for her: If you can support her properly with one arm, she’ll love the fact that you can massage her clitoris at the same time.

What you need to pull this off: Make sure she’s not easily nauseated. The bobbing upside-down view can start to make her feel uncomfortable.

Source for further reading

Strovny, David, AskMen.com Nov.12, 2009

Taylor, Llyn Madame Rouge Australia Nov. 12, 2009
Tuesday, November 10, 2009

How To Have A Great Phone Sex


With this advice, phone sex can be the best sex of your life.

You Will Need

  • Cheat sheet
  • Deep breathing
  • Descriptiveness
  • Sound effects
  • “Sext” message
  • Racy photo
  • Cheat sheet
  • Deep breathing
  • Descriptiveness
  • Sound effects
  • “Sext” message
  • Racy photo
  • For additional fun and excitement: you can also use sex toys like LELO Gigi, SaSi and Wevibe for intense orgasm.
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Step 1: Jot down some notes

If you’re not used to talking dirty, jot down some notes so you’ll never be at a loss for words.

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Step 2: Calm yourself

Spend a few minutes taking deep breaths before dialing so you’ll sound relaxed and confident.

Consider starting things off by sending a “sext” message and R-rated photo of yourself.

Sending racy photos can entail serious risk; only share them with someone you trust completely.

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Step 3: Describe yourself

If you’re wooing a man, paint an alluring picture of what you’re wearing or not wearing, even if the truth is you’re in sweatpants, because guys respond to visual imagery. If you’re dirty dialing a woman, emphasize how much you are craving her body and what precisely you’d like to be doing to her at that very moment.

Speak slowly, emphasizing the last letter of each word.

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Step 4: Become graphic

Become progressively graphic, ending by using the crudest words for body parts that you can think of. Say things you’d be too shy to utter face to face.

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Step 5: Be specific

Be as specific as you can. Don’t say, “I’m so hot for you.” Describe the physical manifestations of your lust.

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Step 6: Make it personal

Refer to your partner’s unique physical attributes and erotic preferences so the dirty talk doesn’t sound generic.

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Step 7: Make it mutual

Listen to your partner and adapt your talk to theirs. It should be a mutual conversation, not two separate monologues.

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Step 8: Get off … the phone

After you’ve both (hopefully) climaxed, end the call. The postcoital glow of phone sex is best enjoyed alone.

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Step 9: Get physical

Add sound effects. Let the person hear what you are doing to your body in response to their suggestions and commands. Keep up the grunts, moans and groans. Moreover, you can also try our Kama Sutra Weekender Kit for intense lust and excitement.
You don’t want the person on the other end to wonder if they’re panting into a dropped call.

Eleven percent of surveyed cell phone users admitted they’ve sent a text message while engaged in “intimate behavior.”

Source for further reading:

Taylor, Llyn Madame Rouge Australia Nov. 11, 2009

Howcast How to have a great Phone Sex Nov. 11, 2009

Monday, November 9, 2009

Sex Toy Gets Iphone Makeover! Watch this video!





The sex toy industry is getting more hi-tech as strong performance during the slump funds more R&D.

See the newest sex toy for your iphone and ipod:

OhMiBod -Personal Massager for iPod


I received a package from Madame Rouge the other day. I tore it open excitedly to discover an OhMiBod box, containing a pink vibe, a metre long cable, a splitter & a pink velvet bag. I grabbed my iPod, stuck the splitter in the headphone jack, & then connected my headphones & the OhMiBod to it. I chose some tracks & giggled as the OhMiBod pulsed in my hand in time to Justin Timberlake.

So, what is the OhMiBod & what does it do?

“Everyone loves music. Everyone loves sex. OhMiBod combines music and pleasure to create the ultimate accessory™ to your iPod.”

I can’t tell you exactly how it works — not geeky enough, I’m afraid. What I can tell you is that it interprets the sounds emanating from your MP3 player & translates them into vibrations. While it sounds kind of gimmicky & silly, it soon becomes addictive & the perfection of the pairing becomes startlingly obvious.

The OhMiBod isn’t a very attractive looking object — it looks more like the end of an elf’s pointy pink shoe than anything you might want near your underpants. But I promise you, once you attach this unusual gizmo to your iPod, stereo or even laptop, you will forgive it its cosmetic misgivings.

I love my OhMiBod. A lot. It’s the ultimate toy for the aurally-fixated. I am definitely one of those people. I live, eat & breathe music, I am always listening to something new, & I am often overcome with the feeling of wanting to crawl inside my favorite songs. So conjuring up a way for a song to give me an orgasm makes me very, very happy.

You can buy an additional accessory to the OhMiBod, a “life-like” neon pink jelly skin which slides over the top… Though one might be moved to ask, “What exactly is it about a neon pink faux-phallus that is ‘life-like’?” It’s an interesting addition, & great for when you want to get a little bit more intimate with your OhMiBod. But of course it does dilute the strength of the pulsations, so if strong direct vibrations are important to you, it will probably just get in your way.

So, of course, now we get down to the crux of it. What makes a good OhMiBod song? Initially I thought it would just be something with a lot of bass, but it was not to be! Really what it’s all about — for me, anyway, ahem — is a strong, steady rhythm. Experiment at your leisure pleasure!

Cool Features:

One of the coolest things about the OhMiBod is that a community has sprung up around it. It’s called Club Vibe, & it’s a place where people share playlists & guest DJs submit their favourite tracks! Continual new music for your perusal! Such a good idea.

Trust me when I say that if you buy one, you will never think about music the same way again…

Madame Rouge is selling the delightful OhMiBod for $110AU. Even better, there’s free, next-day metro delivery for Australian buyers if you quote “iCiNG” when you check out! Please do believe me when I say they’re a lot of fun!

What do you think about the pairing of music & sex? For me, it’s almost impossible to have one without the other. Do you own any toys at all? What do you like? & more importantly, how likely would you be to bliss out to the dulcet tones of your favorite band?!

Extra For Experts:
<3 An interview with Suki of OhMiBod — if you want to know more about the founder of the company, this is worth a read!

Another product is OhMiBod


Have you ever felt a little er, "empty handed" when your lover calls? Our new Boditalk vibe is just what your body needs...to follow where your mind is already wandering. Its velvety finish and sleek design make it the ultimate cell phone accessory™. Boditalk™ is activated by calls made to or from your cell phone when in close range. The cell signal triggers a unique 3 pattern vibrating sequence that lasts for the entire call - enabling you to "get off while you're on". For use without a cellphone, the vibe has 7 stimulation patterns to experiment with and enjoy.

Boditalk™ is molded from premium grade hypoallergenic non-toxic non-porous ABS plastic and measures 6 7/8" long (5 1/2" insertable) and 1" in diameter.

This vibe brings phone sex to a whole new level. Whether you are across town or around the world, Boditalk™ makes those long (or close) distance relationships a lot more fun and exciting.

Included:

  • Hip, hot pink vibe with a velvety finish
  • Integrated multi-function end cap for use with or without a cell phone.

Requires 2 AA batteries (not included). Works with all cell phones including Apple's new iPhone™.

Care and Cleaning: Clean after every use with adult toy cleaner, alcohol or mild soap and water. Dry thoroughly. When cleaning, keep motor, end cap and batteries away from liquids to prevent corrosion of electronic parts.

Source for further reading
Taylor, Llyn Madame Rouge Australia Nov. 10, 2009
SMH Australia Sex Toys get Iphone Makeover Nov. 10, 2009
BodiTalk Nov. 10, 2009


Sunday, November 8, 2009

How To Have Better Sex Life! Watch this!



Have more fun in bed with these proven strategies for improving sex.

You Will Need

  • Exercise
  • Deep breathing
  • Hair tugging
  • An emotional connection
  • A marriage license
  • A feminist partner
  • Masturbation (optional)
  • Wealth (optional)
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Step 1: Get some exercise

Get moving. Exercise activates the sympathetic nervous system, encouraging blood flow to the genital region. One study found that women were more sexually responsive following 20 minutes of vigorous exercise.

Men who are physically active may reduce their chance of erectile dysfunction by up to 30 percent.

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Step 2: Take a deep breath

Take a lot of slow, deep breaths when you’re on the verge of orgasm. You’ll climax more intensely by increasing blood flow to your genitals. You can also try our newest Gigi Vibrator for intense orgasm.

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Step 3: Tug each other’s hair

Tug each other’s hair in the home stretch. It releases endorphins, which in turn intensify orgasm.

Studies suggest that women who masturbate have better orgasms during intercourse than those who don’t.

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Step 4: Have a love connection

Be in love. Studies indicate that couples who have a strong emotional connection have more satisfying sex.

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Step 5: Make it legal

Get married. Surveys show married people have better sex than singles do. You can also try our sexy lingerie and dress up costumes during your honeymoon to make your lovemaking more exciting.

Even better, marry someone rich. Wealthy people have sex more often and are more likely to reach orgasm than the middle and lower classes.

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Step 6: Sleep with a feminist

Hook up with a feminist. Research shows that men with a feminist partner and women with a male who identifies himself as a feminist have healthier relationships and better sex lives. Let’s hear it for equality!

You burn up to 200 calories after 30 minutes of sex.

Source for further reading:

Taylor, Llyn Madame Rouge Australia NOv.9, 2009

Howcast How to have Better Sex Life Nov. 9, 2009

Thursday, November 5, 2009

Have intense orgasm by Using Gigi Vibrator

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Wednesday, November 4, 2009

True Sex Confessions:I tied him up, climbed on and shagged him silly



“I tied him up, climbed on and shagged him silly” I booked a hotel room and asked my man to meet me in the bar after he finished work. I got there before him, dressed in the works: stockings, red knickers and bra, a satin dress and a scarf around my neck. A dark wig finished the outfit off and I went to sit at the bar. He came into the bar and didn’t recognize me at first but when I spoke to the barman he heard me and got the hint.

We chatted like strangers and had a few drinks, before I offered him a nightcap in my room. Once we were up there, I took over, tied him to the bed, climbed on top and tried to shag him silly. But it didn’t work as he persuaded me to let him loose. Big mistake! I ended up tied up with my own stockings and gagged with my scarf. The next two hours I was licked and fucked like never before. The change really worked for both of us… Anon

Source for further reading:

Anon True Confessions Nov. 4, 2009

Taylor, Llyn Madame Rouge Australia Nov 4, 2009

Tuesday, November 3, 2009

How to Rev up your SEX LIFE With Sensate Focus Techniques 03




Rediscover the joy of sex with this five-step program developed by renowned sex therapists.

You Will Need

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Step 1: Avoid sex

Commit to not having intercourse until you get to the end of this therapeutic process. Even if lack of desire is your biggest problem, you may be surprised at how much you’ll crave sex once you’re forbidden to have it.

Both parties should give up pornography as well during the no-sex period.

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Step 2: Get touchy feely

For your first session, remain fully clothed as you each take a 10-minute turn feeling the other person all over. Try to recreate the exciting groping of your adolescence. Don’t speak during this exercise; focus solely on sensation, both when you touch your partner and when you’re being touched.

Create a more intimate space with candles and soft music.

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Step 3: Repeat

Wait a few days, and then repeat the exercise. This time, do it in the nude, but avoid touching breasts, anuses, and genitals.

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Step 4: Give some signals

Wait a few more days, and then repeat the nude touching exercise, this time with no area off-limits. Again, do not speak. But if your partner touches you in a pleasurable way, let them know by squeezing their hand.

Feel free to use creams, lotions, and oils in your foreplay.

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Step 5: Begin mutual touching

After another few days with no physical contact, move on to stage four — mutual nude touching. In other words, the turn-taking is over and you can now do anything you want — short of oral sex and intercourse.

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Step 6: Have no-pressure sex

Forgo physical contact for another few days, and then engage in “nondemand intercourse” which means intercourse without the expectation of achieving orgasm. In fact, if one of you is about to climax, slow down the action. By this time, you both hopefully are panting for unrestricted sexual activity, which you can now enjoy.



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Step 7: Repeat as needed

Repeat this process whenever your sex life needs a jolt.

The average American couple has sex about 66 times a year.

Source for further reading:

Howcast How To Rev Up Your Sex Drive With Sensate Focus Techniques Nov.3, 2009

Taylor, Llyn Madame Rouge Australia Nov.3, 2009


Sunday, November 1, 2009

True Sex Confessions: I proceeded to lick him from head to toe



“I proceeded to lick him from head to toe”

I was seeing this guy who had only ever slept with one woman before me – he’d had a girlfriend for eight years, so getting him into my bed was a mission. His ex must’ve been pretty straight in the sack, as when I whipped out my box of toys for the first time, he almost spunked his load there and then. Anyway, I liked him and thought it’d be fun teaching him a thing or two. After we’d been seeing each other for a few weeks, I finally got him in bed and told him I had a surprise for him.

I tied him to my headboard with my stockings, blindfolded him, and proceeded to lick him from head to toe spending plenty of time on his knob. My hands ran all over his body and within half a second he came like the falls. I sucked it all down hungrily before freeing him from the bed and removing his blindfold. I could see the lad was in a bit of state but I fell asleep soon after. The next morning we woke up and he seemed more nervous than ever. Eventually he plucked up the courage and said I was too experienced for him and that he couldn’t go out with me. When he left my house I fell about in fits of giggles.

Posted: RHIANA, PORTSMOUTH

Source for further reading

Rhiana, True Confessions Nov 3, 2009

Taylor, Llyn Madame Rouge Australia Nov 3, 2009

Saturday, October 31, 2009

How to kiss with passion. Watch this Video!



Are you a good kisser? Anyone can be, with the right technique.

You Will Need

  • A partner you’re passionate about
  • And a comfortable space, such as a couch
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Step 1: Clean your mouth

Brush your teeth, floss and use mouthwash. Bad breath is the ruination of kissing. At the very least, have a mint.

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Step 2: Sit w/ partner in private

Sit with your partner, preferably in private. Public displays of affection may be fun for you, but they make everyone else uncomfortable.

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Step 3: Relax

Relax and clear your mind. Focus only on the person with you.

Angle your face to avoid crunching noses.

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Step 4: Touch lips

Lean into the person until your lips touch.

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Step 5: Be soft & gentle

Keep lip contact soft and gentle in the beginning.

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Step 6: Experiment

Experiment with different movements and techniques. For instance, gently suck on your partner’s lower lip, or caress his lips lightly with your tongue.

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Step 7: Use your tongue

Open your mouth enough to slowly slide your tongue into your partner’s mouth. If you get an enthusiastic response, start exploring the inside of each other’s mouth. Just remember to keep it slow and soft, not darting or invasive.

Don’t forget to breathe through your nose. Nothing ruins a good make-out like falling unconscious.

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Step 8: Come up for air

As the make-out session intensifies, come up for air by kissing your partner’s face, ears, and neck, even giving them the occasional soft nip or gently tugging on their hair in the heat of the moment.

Truly passionate kissing has a sense of urgency, as if you’ve been waiting for this moment for so long that you can’t hold back.

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Step 9: Use your hands

Use your hands: kissing is made complete by strokes and caresses. Try holding the person’s face as you kiss.

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Step 10: Practice

Practice makes perfect.

Source for further reading:

Howcast How to kiss with passion Nov 1, 2009

Taylor, Llyn Madame Rouge Australia Nov 1, 2009