Are you a good kisser? Anyone can be, with the right technique.

Whether you want to spare an inept partner’s feelings or you just want to bring things to a close, here’s how to fake the orgasm of your life.
You Will Need

* Acting skills
* Good timing

Step 1: Moan gently

Start off by moaning gently a few times. Keep your eyes half-open and your face neutral.

Step 2: Offer encouragement

As you moan, offer a few words of encouragement, like a breathless, “yes, yes” or “that feels so good.”

Step 3: Kick it up

Gradually get louder. Moan more aggressively. Breathe harder and faster.

The key word is “gradually.” If you skip from content murmuring to screams of sexual ecstasy, your performance won’t just be fake—it’ll be downright insulting.

Step 4: Make faces

As you progress, make more intense faces—bite your lip, open your mouth, furrow your brow, grit your teeth.

Step 5: Move around

Make sure you move around—this is a full-body performance. “Involuntarily” jerking your legs is a nice touch. Just don’t make it look you’re having an epileptic fit.

Make sure you have time to fake your orgasm before your partner climaxes—especially since the kind of guy you need to fake it with is probably also “fast on the draw.”

Step 6: Announce it

Announce your imminent bliss with a breathless, “Oh God, I’m almost there!”

Step 7: Go for it

Squeeze your partner extra-tightly and pretend you’ve lost all ability to control yourself—scream, thrash around, go intensely quiet, draw in quick, short breaths—whatever you do when you’re actually having an orgasm.

Step 8: Include him

While you fake it, scream out that you want him to orgasm, too. Guys like that.

Step 9: Compliment incoherently

When you’re done, immediately compliment his lovemaking skills with gasping incoherence, like: “That was… you… I… uh… amazing.”

Step 10: Linger

Linger afterward. The best actors stay in character even when the camera isn’t rolling.

According to a survey of 15,000 sexually active adults, 72% of women and 24% of men have faked an orgasm.

Source for further reading:

Taylor,Llyn Madame Rouge Australia Oct 31, 2009
Howcast How to Fake An Orgasm Oct 31, 2009

Why is Halloween so sexy? I can think of about a dozen reasons, but here are my top six:

• Getting dressed up is sexy.
• Eating candy is sexy.
• Wearing make up is sexy (with the proper lighting).
• Pretending you’re someone else is sexy.
• Being scared is sexy (being terrified is sexier!)
• Even that cheap satin used in so many sexy Halloween costumes is sexy.

For some, Halloween is sexy because of the nostalgic thrill of childhood Halloweens; getting to stay up late, wandering around the streets after dark, indulgence, make up, turning everything on its head. It’s ultimate freedom for one night.

As adults we can also use Halloween as an excuse to explore parts of our sexuality we might otherwise feel embarrassed or uncomfortable about. In this way Halloween can be a great sexual motivator and instigator, where one night of abandon can open up sexual doors that can be walked through the whole year round. Here are some sexy Halloween inspired ideas for scary sexy fun on October 31.

Sexy Halloween Dress Up

This may be the most obvious, but it can also be the most fun part of exploring. I guarantee you that everyone can learn something from dressing up as a gender other than the one they play during the day. And why go through life without ever once wielding Wonder Woman’s Lasso of Truth, or King Arthur’s Sword (are you getting the idea here?) There are plenty of places to find sexy Halloween costumes, but your imagination will always win out over store bought goodies.

Get Into It

The Halloween costume may be the excuse, but you’ve got to dig deep to turn a cautious flirtation with edginess into a full fledged sexual freak out. It’s the opportunity to explore all aspects of sexual role play, so don’t pass it up!

Play with your Food

Food is sexy, to be sure, and Halloween is all about food you get to eat with your hands. Whether you want to scare up a peeled grape/oozing eyeball massage, or a chocolate syrup/fake blood bath, or if you simply want to get hopped up on sugar and hop into bed, the childlike abandon of Halloween can be an excuse to bring some messy play back into your sex life. Always remember to play safe and wash your fruits and vegetables first!

Halloween Homemade Sex Toys

Some people spend weeks and months preparing their costume for Halloween. Others focus their interests on sex toys, preparing for a sexy Halloween in a different way, by creating Halloween themed sex toys. Not for everyone, to be sure, but I promise you’ll never look at a pumpkin the same again.

Cuddle up and get Scared

The relationship between sex and horror has been the subject of countless articles, books, and television programs. Getting scared can get us hot, and, as one television documentary producer put it, when you come right down to it, what terrifies us more than our sexuality? Rent a scary movie, tell each other scary stories, and then give your lover comfort all night long.

Source for Further Reading:

Silverberg, Corey Sexuality Oct 28, 2009

Honeymoon is the most important part of every couple’s night. It is important that we make this night special, sensual and fun. Making our lover’s first impression lasts for a lifetime. Here are some tips to make your night sizzle and erotic:

1. First buy the sexiest lingerie in your place. Read these tips when buying your sexy piece:

· Always make sure the lingerie you select fits you perfectly. Lingerie is meant for your comfort if it's not comfortable then there is no point in buying it at first place.

· It's important that you decide your spending budget in advance. There is huge variety in the lingerie market and there are some very expensive brands in market.

· Lingerie these days aren't just old granny panties anymore, you will find thousands of different styles. You can have bustiers, chemises, see through bras, detailed brasseries with laces. If you want to spice up a dull relationship you can buy hot costumes with erotic themes like French maid or policewoman.

· Purchasing lingerie can be very easy if you are at the right store. Reputed stores will not only ensure that you have quality product but you'll find a lot of variety too. As technology has advanced shopping lingerie was become even easier with online stores.

2. Set the mood and the area. Light some candles, potions, bring some CDs and a radio, scatter rose petals, or do whatever helps you get in the mood. And don't be afraid to kick friends and family out early. While they may tease you a little, they'll certainly understand!

3. Don't have sex with each other for a couple of days before the wedding
Many couples try this to make the wedding night sex fresh and new again. Others go even further by giving up sex months before the wedding so that they may be virgin-like on the wedding night.

4. Experiment with one another. To add more fun and excitement you can try sex games or sex toys. This will spice up your night and adds fun and more thrills.

5. And also remember!! Do not go for your honeymoon the very next day of your marriage.

6. Be sentimental and romantic. Give him/her a bottle with a message for her/him in the bottle. You can also recollect your most beautiful moments while coming home.

7. If possible shower him with a nice gift everyday while on your honeymoon. Men love surprises as women. You can give her books, lingerie and potions.

8. Use body language to communicate your feelings. When around scratch your beloved's ear to make him/her feel your presence.

Men are powerless to beautiful and confident women. As they say, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. It tells us that the meaning of beauty is subjective and depends upon the definition of every individual. Here are some lists of male turn-on’s to guide women on how to be more attractive and confident in carrying themselves:

1. Be mysterious and eye catching

Most men often prefer to be teased with a little taste of what is to come. This would include a woman who dresses to show a little skin, but not too much. For example, a female who wears a sexy dress-up costume or a sexy lingerie in a Halloween party is often more seductive than one who is scantily clad.

Women who maintain a certain degree of class are always more attractive to men than women who openly share all their secrets!

2. Be honest enough to admit that you love sex

There is nothing wrong in admitting that you are enjoying sex, and there are some things more attractive to a man than a woman who can admit this! Many men have a major obsession with sex, so a sexually confident woman with a healthy sex drive is a big turn on for them.

3. Have a strong self-esteem

Most men are craving for a smart and confident woman. Men are hugely turned on by a woman who believes in herself and has the confidence to speak her mind. Men tire easily of women who constantly need to be reassured. A woman with self-esteem is more challenging and keeps men on their toes!

4. Speaks for yourself and talk dirty

Nothing turns a man more than a girl who knows how to talk dirty. For men, hearing a woman describe what she wants sexually is very attractive. Women who effortlessly talk dirty are exciting and hold the promise of amazing sex.

5. Love your body and show it off

Men love to look at women's bodies. It is no secret that men love a great pair of breasts or a lovely backside. Moreover, men love a woman who appreciates what she's got and is not shy to show it. It is difficult to be turned on by a woman who is ashamed of her body, but a woman who embraces her attributes will always win the attention of eager men! For example, a girl can wear a sexy lingerie while seducing her husband during their honeymoon night.

6. Have a cute accent.

You have probably heard this one before and you may find it hard to believe, but true enough, an accent is a male turn on. Regardless of whether she is from Scotland or Spain, her accent will be perceived as exotic to a man. It is especially sexy when she is describing what she loves to do in bed!

7. Be a comedian with a good sense of humor

A woman who can be funny is very attractive and approachable. Men are turned on by a witty woman; one who can dish it out as well as she can take it! A sense of humor adds playfulness to the relationship and always keeps them coming back for more!

8. Be adventurous

Women who are willing to try new things and live on the wild side will always win the attention of a man. Showing a free-spirited nature is sexy and a challenge for any man! Moreover, trying adventurous sex game or using a sex toy during love making can add more spice to your lovelife.

9. Be Independent

Men do not like to think that every woman is seeking a lifetime commitment. Men are turned on by women who can have casual relationships, without attachment. An independent woman is self-sufficient and free to have fun!

Source for further reading:

Taylor, Llyn Madame Rouge Australia Oct 21,2009

Pelegrino, Marissa Male Turn Ons Oct 21,2009

New to Australia, within a short space of time this product has become our best seller of 2009 so far. This in itself speaks volumes for the product, as most of these orders are made through friends telling friends how they loved the product and it that is MUST be tried to be believed.

The real reason for this popularity is that it’s the first vibrator where you don’t have to take turns, and it’s specifically designed for couple’s play whilst making love.

So what’s the We Vibe all about….? Read on to find out more about this amazing little device….

The We-Vibe is a brand new adult lifestyle luxury product for couples to share together.

Unique in design, this revolutionary product is the first ever toy that can be used as you make love and is worn internally by the lady. Its innovative design allows for simultaneous external clitoral and internal g-spot stimulation for women whilst using it. Watch our product demonstration

But add to this the bonus that the vibrations of the device also pass through to the male once he is inside the lasy too. So both partners get to share in the fun at the same time. Its a wireless dual vibrator all rolled into one.

Made with a silicone material of medical grade, which is pthalate free for your peace of mind the We-Vibe is ergonomically designed to onform to the shape of a women, making it comfortable and easy to use.

This product is also popular in Hollywood. Many stars in the Oscars flocked to the prestigious gifting room at the Academy Awards to be one of the first to receive the revolutionary We-Vibe sex toy.

Display at the Oscar’s

The celebrities were very excited to become proud owners of the latest, most talked about, innovative We-Vibe. Representatives were on hand with live demonstrations showing the incredible capabilities of this amazing little toy. The We-Vibe is worn by a woman during love making or it can also be used during solo play.

Tila Tequila and her new We-Vibe!

The We-Vibe is considered to be the “Sex Toy of the Year!” according to sexpert sure Johanson and there is little doubt why. The We-Vibe has been uniquely designed to pleasure both men and women while using it during love making, yet it also allows a woman to experience solo stimulation by providing climactic internal and external arousal!

AnnaLynne McCord gets a hands on demonstration!

Hundreds of stars made sure not to leave without a complimentary We-Vibe in their swag bag. Stars such as AnnaLynne McCord from 90210, MTV personality Tila Tequila, Playboy Bunny – Cindy Margolis, actor Mario Lopez, American Idol contestant Justin Guarini as well as The Young & The Restless star Eva Marcille.

Justin Guarini shows off his new We-Vibe!

Bruce & Melody Murison of Standard Innovation Corp. were thrilled but not overly surprised at the reception received from stars in respects to their We-Vibe personal adult massager, however they did not expect to be so over whelmed with admirers that extra security needed to be called in.

SaSi is the ultimate, customisable vibrator. Using the latest Sensual Intelligence technology, SaSi is uniquely intuitive. It learns and remembers exactly what you like, giving you the perfect, intense sensual massage every time.

SaSi is like no other toy using combinations of movement and vibration as a form of stimulation. A smooth, rounded head undulates under a thin, silky cover, creating a soft kneading sensation that can be customized by adjusting movement type, speed and vibration.

SaSi has two modes. In Favourites Mode SaSi does what it is told. It comes pre-programmed with 5 movements, which are easily selected by navigating left or right.

In Customise Mode, SaSi gradually morphs from one movement to another, trying new sensations. If you dislike a particular movement simply skip to the next one. SaSi will remember this and is less likely to use it again. If SaSi creates a sensation you really like, press the “don’t stop” button. SaSi will remember and use it again next time.

Just like a good partner, SaSi gives a different experience every time whilst still incorporating the movements you like best.

· * Fantastic for partner foreplay or solo massage

· * Splash-proof, non-porous and bacteria resilient

· * Removable covers made from phthalate and latex-free medical grade silicone

· * Rechargeable

· * Beautifully packaged ideal as a gift

· * SaSi measures approximately 130 by 55 by 45 millimeters x

· * Discreet humming sound (no loud buzzing)!

Source for further reading:

Taylor, Llyn Madame Rouge Australia October 19, 2009

Are you bored with the same old routine in your bedroom? I have some bedroom tips to add thrill and excitement for your lovemaking needs. According to Allison Young and Michael Webb, there are several ways to break up bedroom boredom.

Here are some tips for you and your lover:

1. Sexzee Yahtzee

All you need is one dice and a vivid imagination. On a piece of paper, both partners write actions to correspond with the numbers. You can keep this one relatively tame (e.g. 1 = foot massage) or push the limits depending on your mood (e.g. 1 = blow job). When you roll, your partner has to deliver. Remember: This is your chance to try out all the “acts” you’ve been too shy to request, so don’t hold back.

Bonus: You can throw in two or more dice for multiple acts performed in a series or at the same time.

2. Truth or Dare?

If you’ve never played this sex game, you’re in for a surprise. Whether you pick truth or dare, you’re sure to uncover a few new (and titillating) things about your partner (and vice versa). All you need to play is a vivid imagination and a healthy sexual appetite. If you get stuck, don’t only ask about her sexual fantasies, bring them to life. As for dare, a striptease with your sexy lingerie or lap dance is always a crowd pleaser. If you don’t want to ask or answer about past sexual escapades, set a rule from the get-go that former flings are off-limits. The last thing you want to do is make her jealous or self-conscious.

Bonus: Play this sex game over dinner for added exhibitionist excitement.

3. 7 Minutes in Heaven

Just because you’re no longer a teenager, it doesn’t mean the closet is off-limits. In the adult version of this game, wait for her in the dark (door closed) while she slips into something more comfortable (like lingerie or dress up sexy costumes). The anticipation and confined space will up the hot factor and the lack of light will heighten your senses. Once she steps inside, kiss her hand, kiss her arm, kiss her collarbone, but hold off kissing her lips until she can’t take it any longer.

Bonus: Turn it into a game that the first person to speak loses.

4.Spin the Bottle

You probably remember Spin the Bottle from the wood-paneled basement days of your youth that was usually played by a bevy of bashful boys and girls. This variation of the classic pushes the boundaries well past kissing. Start by polishing off a bottle of wine; that always helps set the mood. In addition to the empty bottle, you need a marker and a large piece of paper. Start by drawing a circle about twice the size of the wine bottle, divide it into six equal sections and write a sexy request in each section, something both men and women can perform (e.g. French Kiss, Striptease in a Lingerie, Partner’s Choice, Make Love using a sex toy). Take turns spinning the bottle; whatever section you land on, you perform on your partner.

Bonus: Videotape your escapades for later viewing.

5.Sexy Twister

Remember Twister? Remember all those contortionist positions (right leg green, left hand yellow) that had your body entwined with your competitors. Now, picture playing it naked with your girlfriend. The Kama Sutra Board games, all you need for naked Twister is the Twister board and your birthday suit. Spin the wheel and place your limbs where the wheel indicates, making sure not to topple over. To add some excitement, distract your opponent by licking, nuzzling, kissing, and tickling. Last man (or woman) standing wins this sex game.

Bonus: Rather than starting out stark naked, turn Sexy Twister into Strip Twister. With each spin of the wheel, an article of clothing is removed before you take your position.

Benefits of sex games:

o Enjoy a closer and more meaningful relationship with your partner

o Experience more happiness and fulfillment in your relationship or marriage

o Enjoy more confidence knowing your partner is fully satisfied (maybe they'll even initiate sex more!)

o Make love more often!

o Have full-body orgasms more often

o Feel safe and secure knowing that your thriving relationship will continue to blossom long into the future

Source for further reading

Young, Allison 5 Sex Games, October 16, 2009

Webb, Michael 100 Sex Games, October 16, 2009